Anaemia: how it almost robbed me of the joys of motherhood: Zoey's story

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 “Recognising that my lack of awareness nearly jeopardised my child's life has been one of the most difficult experiences for me as a new mother; it served as a critical turning point.”


Pregnancy is typically heralded as a phase of new beginnings, filled with anticipation and joy. However, for some mothers, this journey can leave enduring scars, experiences they wish to suppress. While it may be tempting to attribute some complications to conditions like anaemia, for Zoey, this has not been a singular episode but a repeated ordeal. Today, we are excited to share her narrative with a broader audience.

The saying “once beaten, twice shy” resonates with many, yet my experiences have taught me that sometimes, even after adversity, one feels compelled to unravel the underlying complexities. My journey with anaemia was of pain and close calls. It all began with my first pregnancy when I was diagnosed with anaemia during my initial antenatal visit. This revelation took me by surprise, as I had never encountered such a health issue before. During that appointment, I was prescribed iron supplements; however, their adverse effects prompted me to discontinue use without consulting my healthcare provider. This decision triggered a cascade of symptoms, including dizziness, ultimately resulting in a prematurely complicated labour that almost claimed my life.

Instead of receiving the wake-up call I desperately needed, I remained indifferent until I became pregnant with my second child. However, this time, I had the guidance of an obstetrician who could support me throughout my pregnancy. Yet, my dislike of iron supplementation persisted, leading to another premature labour with complications. It was only then that I fully grasped the impact of anaemia on my birthing experiences and acknowledged my ignorance as a significant factor in these outcomes.

The reality of undergoing premature labour and the knowledge that my stubbornness contributed to the risks faced by my children deeply affected my postpartum mental health, resulting in feelings of guilt and depression. Had it not been for my supportive network following both births, I might have become overwhelmed, possibly resenting my children. Surely, I had misunderstood anaemia’s role; the condition had existed before pregnancy but was exacerbated by it.

In closing, I want to urge all women to recognise the seriousness of anaemia. I have seen through experience that if left unaddressed, it can be life-threatening for both mother and child. Therefore, it is vital to take medical advice seriously and adhere strictly to prescribed treatments from healthcare professionals.

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